Nateworthy Podcasts

A few people have asked lately which podcasts I like to listen to. Here are my three favorites.

Discussions by Patrick Dodson (new podcasts every so often) – Patrick lives in New Zealand and works with YWAM. He speaks all over the world, mostly to twentysomething Christians trying to figure out what to do with their lives, and records his presentations for your listening pleasure. His views have influenced mine more than any other single person over the last three years. I recommend starting with his most recent series on Identity. On iTunes.

The Monocle Weekly (as implied, new show every week) – This is the best executed audio show I’ve heard. I’ve been listening to Tyler, Andrew, and Rob talk about global news and culture for the last three years, since I began listening to podcasts. Most of their guests are interesting, and most of their topics are right up my alley. I think my favorite thing about the show (and the magazine) is its global focus. I intend to shamelessly imitate The Monocle Weekly when I start the new OCSPLORA podcast next year. (P.s., I don’t like the show as much since they started M24 and stretched it to fit a two hour time slot. Still worth listening to, though.) On iTunes.

On Point with Tom Ashbrook (two shows a day, every weekday) – Tom Ashbrook is one of my heroes. I had already been listening to WBUR, Boston’s local NPR station, for a while when I finally tuned in for the first time between ten and noon and heard Tom interviewing some really interesting guest about some really interesting topic, then taking calls from listeners to expand the conversation. It’s a two-hour show if you are listening on the radio, but it is broken up into one hour segments, each focusing on a person or topic, and that is how you will get it from iTunes – as a one hour, one topic show. Tom focuses on world news, technology, Asia (he used to be based in Hong Kong as a journalist), and cultural icons – mostly authors and musicians. (P.s. again, On Point has the best intro and outro theme music ever.) On iTunes.

Bonus: I also subscribe to the TED Talks audio podcast. I don’t listen to every single talk, but I catch quite a few of them. Fantastic. If you don’t know what TED Talks are, you gotta go check out TED.com.

The Ghost Layer: An Interview with Benjamin Miles

This is the beginning to a story I wrote (and didn’t even come close to finishing) for National Novel Writing Month in November, 2011. I liked the idea of starting off with an interview, like you’re reading a magazine article. I jumped into the rest of the story after I finished the fake interview, but I didn’t get very far so this is just the interview part. The story takes place in the not-too-distant future and it’s basically the story of the internet as it becomes a virtual world.

By Monica Quintero

He sits in the chair across from me, not looking anxious but not relaxed either. Just sort of mildly uncomfortable. A mug sits on the table before him, steam pulsing up and away from his face. He is young. He is thin. His skin is a pale color. He doesn’t stand out, really. Not in any particular way. Not extremely attractive or unattractive. His face is sort of mushy. No hard lines. His eyes are the one exception to the otherwise uninterestingness of his appearance. They are greyish blue and have a certain sparkle that catches you off guard, reminds you of wild old fishermen. Except they, the fisherman, are bronzed and he is so very pale, like a ghost.

Like a ghost.

‘Let’s start at the very beginning,’ I say. ‘For anyone who’s been living in a cave for the last couple decades, what is the ghost layer?’

He leans back in his chair and takes a deep breath. ‘The internet took shape at the beginning of the century. It changed the world, but it was restrictive. It was limited. The only way to access it or use it was through one of the old computers, with a screen and a keyboard and this thing called a mouse.

‘It wasn’t long before you could interact with the internet through smaller, more intuitive and user-friendly devices. Phones and tabs. Everyone began using them to use the internet.

‘At the same time that technology was making everything smaller and faster and user interfaces were becoming simpler and more a part of everyday life, the games were evolving. The software companies back then were working hard at making digital worlds look and act more and more like our own.

‘People would play these games together. The internet was like a spider’s web that connected them to servers and to each other. In fact, they used to call the internet the World Wide Web. Anyways, these players would get completely lost in the games, immersed in a second reality. They found it more compelling than their own reality.

‘That was when companies began to experiment with a fully immersive internet experience. Mesh together the second reality of the games, whole and complete, with the limitless potential of the internet. Billions of people sharing a digital world.

‘Again, people got lost in their made up worlds. Many elements of the games blended into the immersive experiences of the internet. Those experiences, those portals, became lenses through which you saw the raw information. The information was the same, but the lenses shaped it into a digital reality. And those digital realities could be created any way the shapers wanted.

‘All of those different lenses, at first separate and strictly controlled and guarded, began to mesh together into one giant mish-mash of internet immersion, which came to be known as the game layer. Later people started calling it the ghost layer.’

From a recent response to a friend’s email

I was worried by the way you worded [it] that you were waiting for God to explicitly show you what he wants you to do next, and if that were the case I was going to challenge you on it. But sounds like you’re well on your way to doing great things ;) Not that I could really judge either way, but I used to be that person waiting for God to show me what to do, and now that I know better I’m very passionate about helping other people to avoid my mistakes.

What I’m learning now is to be bold, but that is hard for me. ‘Whatever you can do, or dream you can, begin it– Boldness has genius, power, and magic in it.’ -Johann Wolfgang von Goethe. I think God loves boldness. Jesus certainly did.

How do I know they’re the right one?

Oftentimes I think about advice that people should ask me for, but never do. Here’s a question that I would have a great answer for, should anyone ever choose to ask: How do I know whether this person I’m currently dating is the person I want to spend the rest of my life with? Here’s how I would answer that question as someone who’s been married for almost eight years (to one woman).

Here are the things you should factor in to this decision – in order of importance:

  1. Character. Do you respect this person for their beliefs and values? Do you respect the way they live those beliefs and values out in their day to day lives? Do they have the same integrity no matter who they are with, or whether anyone is watching? Do they do what’s right, even when it’s difficult? Do they take moral shortcuts to make life easier? Do they treat people with respect? Their friends? Their family? Their neighbors? The checkout lady? Do they learn from their mistakes? Do they put themselves in the other person’s shoes? Do they have a good attitude most of the time?
  2. Future. Do they want the same things you want out of life? Sometimes you know specifically what you want, and sometimes it’s just a general idea. Sometimes you just know where you don’t want to end up in life. Doesn’t matter, just so long as you are both basically on the same page. Sometimes it’s worth it to give up the future you thought you wanted for someone you didn’t expect. That’s cool, but you better know that going in and you better not let that become resentment later on. All in or get out quick.
  3. Fun. This is where the chemistry kicks in, and once the potential spouse gets through the character test and the future test, this is definitely the next most important thing. I don’t care what anyone says. If you can have fun together most of the time, you’ve got a decent chance of making this thing work, no matter how hard it gets. If you’re ignoring this aspect of the relationship because the other parts work so well for you, there is a very miserable time in your future, ending in either divorce or death. Period.
  4. Hotness. Okay, they’ve got such great character you would think they were the love child of Mother Teresa and Abraham Lincoln. They want to go build houses for poor people in Siberia just like you’ve always wanted to do. And you can’t be apart for more than six hours because life only comes in in black and white when you’re not together. Now, and only now, you can focus on attraction. And even then, if the first three things on this list are solid, and this person who you’re so into doesn’t repulse you to the point of dry heaving, I’d say you’re all set. We like to put physical attraction on a pedestal in our society, but the truth is, it’s just icing on the cake. And real beauty shows through from the inside. Every. Single. Time. I promise you.

There. For what it’s worth, there’s your checklist for an as-good-a-chance-as-you-are-going-to-have lifelong romance. It’s worked for me.

I would get on a plane for ya

Wendy, singing: I would take a grenade for yaaaaaa. I would get on a plane for yaaaaaa…

Nate: What did you say?

Wendy: I would get on a plane for ya?

Nate: Nope.

Wendy: Yeah. I would get on a plane for yaaaaaa…

Nate: Nope.

Wendy: Oh. I would walk through the rain for yaaaaaa…

Nate: Nope.

Wendy: No?

Nate: All the lyrics in that song are about him dying or being horribly mangled.

Wendy: I would jump in front of a plane for yaaaaaa…

Nate: Nope, no planes in the song.

Wendy: I would get in front of a train for ya?

Nate: Yep, I would jump in front of a train for ya.

Wendy, a few minutes later: I would walk a great dane for yaaaaaa!

Nate: Death or horribly mangled.

Wendy: I would un-clog a drain for yaaaaaa!

Nate: Death or mangled.

Wendy: I would lie in the shade for yaaaaaa!

Nate: Death or manglement.

Wendy: I would relocate to Main for yaaaaaa! I would give up my fame for yaaaaaa! I would get on a plane for yaaaaaa!

One of my ongoing projects is to complete a series of New England illustrated postcards, maybe 12 total. This is #2. It is painted in Photoshop Elements over a photo that we took in Maine. It is really just a fancy tracing, actually, but I like it.

Budget Travel (Feb 2011) vs. Afar (Nov/Dec 2010)

The way I pray

Father in Heaven

May you be honored for who you are
By all people
Of every language, culture, and religion

May your Kingdom continue to invade this world
And all of human activity

May things happen the way you want them to
Here, just like they do in Heaven

Give us today what we need for today

Forgive us for wronging you and others
And help us to forgive anyone who wrongs us

Lead us away from tempting situations
And rescue us from evil.

I’m heeeeere, and I’m singiiiing…

2010: A Nate’s Odyssey

  • Grew a scruffy beard, then shaved it into a nice goatee
  • Took a trip to Vermont for a few days, including a day-trip to Montreal
  • Designed and published OCSPLORA Volume One (goal)
  • Used Kickstarter to promote and sell Vol. One to a whopping 22 people
  • Redesigned the logo and made t-shirts with it
  • Moved Ocsplora.com to Tumblr for a while, then back to WordPress
  • Made progress on The Donkey Speaks to about halfway done (half-goal)
  • Blogged and twittered pretty steadily through the first half of the year (half-goal)
  • Developed an interesting photo-tracing art style for postcards and stuff
  • Worked as a delivery driver, food server, child transporter and (de)construction assistant
  • Started a new business doing print and web design, Mess Kit Media
  • Made well over a hundred dollars from my creative ability (goal)
  • Spent some time in Providence, RI (where I’m at right now)
  • Went snowboarding once
  • Two Cape trips with friends – one week-long vacation, one overnight camping trip
  • Explored the South Shore a bit, and more of Boston (lots of SOWA trips)
  • Influenced some very good articles to be written for OCSPLORA
  • Established some clear and concise goals for OCSPLORA for 2011
  • Designed a base template for Tumblr websites – used it for everything
  • Helped Coffee Haven to establish a web presence, and an email newsletter
  • Helped Kelly & Co. Hair Salon to establish their web presence
  • Designed a logo for Flagg Medical
  • Designed a logo for The Chop Shop
  • Designed business cards for HeartSafeCPR
  • Designed a flyer for Parlor Salon & Apothecary
  • Helped Mobility by Dennis to establish a web presence, and Google ads
  • Built a website for StoryTapestry
  • Read and listened to a ton of books (mostly non-fiction) and listened to a ton of podcasts
  • Continued to strengthen working relationships with OCSPLORA contributors
  • Sent 9-ish OCSPLORA Soundings email updates for contributors and care-takers
  • Hosted Friday Night Dinners nearly every week for the whole year
  • Started trail running – loved it
  • Started up at Planet Fitness as soon as they opened, went 2 or 3 times a week (goal)
  • Went on a 6 week eating plan – felt great about it
  • Confronted a close friend about some difficult things
  • Wrote down a vague dream job description
  • Helped FCCH work out its missions strategy for the future
  • Got a euro-mullet
  • Loved well, lived fully, laughed a lot